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Harvesting Happiness 4 Heroes

Harvesting Happiness 4 Heroes

By Lisa Cypers Kamen, Harvesting Happiness 4 Heroes

No one really likes to hear us complain. Have you ever noticed that complaining doesn’t solve anything? Complaining also doesn’t make us feel very good.  There are ways to express discontent or unhappiness without complaining.  This is the power behind choosing your words.  No one expects you to be a Scrabble expert or consult a dictionary, but choosing your words in a way that empowers yourself and others can help you feel better about a situation. When we feel better about a situation, we are more able to make changes or change the situation for the better.

What do I mean? Saying things like “being in this situation sucks” brings you down and brings the people around you down. Acknowledging that the situation is not great but that this will pass is a whole different story.  Try rephrasing, “I know it’s hard right now, but it’s not going to last forever” bring control, empowerment and an end to the negative feelings.  Saying something sucks leaves you powerless and at the mercy of the situation.  You are the victim.  But claiming your power, noting that its not forever and putting your situation into perspective can make the difference between the will to survive and giving up.  And we don’t give up until the job is done. 

Independent filmmaker, author, happiness coach and speaker Lisa Cypers Kamen creates these blogs to entertain, enlighten and educate our service men and women along with their families as well as support our troops. To contact Lisa, email her directly at lisa@whatisyourhappiness.com and check out her websites at www.whatisyourhappiness.com , www.harvestinghappiness.com  , and www.hh4heroes.org   and listen to her on  www.harvestinghappinesstalkradio.com or download her show at  www.itunes.com.

Harvesting Happiness with Lisa Cypers Kamen brings to the airwaves a fresh talk radio approach promoting happiness, well-being and global human flourishing by presenting a diverse and proactive collection of the greatest thinkers and doers who have devoted their lives to creating a better world in which to live. She is an expert in creating happiness, finding pathways to happiness, and building a happiness formula in her happiness workshops. If you are looking for how to become a happier person, tune in weekly at www.toginet.com Wednesday’s at 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm EST.

Harvesting Happiness for Heroes is a pending 501(c)(3), non-profit corporation. Our mission objective is to offer support services to Warriors and Warrior families challenged by Combat Trauma, PTSD and post-deployment reintegration issues.  We offer Battle Buddy workshops, family awareness training, online community support, one-on-one coaching services, as well as retreats for Warriors to decompress from battle and understand the tools available for them to adapt their military skills to civilian society.

Harvesting Happiness & Harvesting Happiness for Heroes provides positive psychology coaching tools to facilitate greater well-being. This communication is provided for education and inspiration. This communication does not constitute mental health treatment nor is it indicative of a private therapeutic relationship. Individuals desiring help for trauma, addiction and abuse related issues or other psychological concerns should seek out a mental health professional.

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