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Harvesting Happiness for Heroes by Lisa Cypers Kamen

by Lisa Cypers Kamen, Harvesting Happines 4 Heroes

 

We have already discussed some important ways to help heal your depression, slowly but surely, and if you have not read those articles yet, then please catch yourself up and join us again.

 

Another important aspect in healing depression is to realize you cannot stake your happiness on one thing, or find your self importance in just one person or activity. It is important to realize that everyone, at some point, loses a job or a relationship or a loved one. This does not lessen the pain or the situation, but it is important in realizing you cannot harbor guilt or shame. Part of moving forward is learning what you can or, when a death or injury is involved, learning to heal and cope with the situation.

 

These will all, especially dealing with the loss of a friend, take awhile. It is a long process. It is okay to take awhile in healing, and it is okay to seek professional help or help from your friends.

 

But when dealing with friendships, relationships, goals, and jobs, we must learn to not place all our self-worth in one of the above. When they fail or falter, as does happen in life, we must still see our own good attributes, and have other aspects of our life to fall back on. Life must be full of friends, work, learning, hobbies—both alone and in groups—and many things that, as we discussed earlier, can also help bring us out of depression.

 

If you are lacking in one of these areas, then make a plan—one step at a time—to right that situation. Join a class, or take a day off of one area of your life to make time for hobbies, friends, or whatever is lacking. Begin a new book, or join a club. Slowly broadening your horizons will help broaden your potential for happiness, and get your mind off of any negative thoughts.

 

And at the very least, when depression hits, let yourself be distracted. Watch a comedy, a movie, or read a book or magazine. Simply engaging in something absorbing will help pull your mind and emotions out of a destructive cycle, and help you move onto other matters.

 

 HH4Heroes Depression Diffusion Interactive Strategy #9

 

Pay it Forward. One of my favorite Positive Psychology coaching interventions for depression is to be of service to others. Clearly it is hard to help others when we are having a hard time helping ourselves. This is when we need to call on our courage to step out of our heads and into the world to help others. Doing something kind and useful to help someone else is a fantastic way to start feeling better about yourself. This is called, “the helper’s high” and it is the giddy and intoxicating feeling that comes when we help someone else who needs a hand. You may challenge me by saying you already served our country and this is what got you into this funk to begin with.  But this is a different kind of service that is about connecting from the heart and helping someone in need with life’s simple tasks. Go out and volunteer for an hour, a day, a weekend or whatever you can comfortably give. You will see that it is in the giving that you will receive.

 

Join us next for discussing when the causes of depression run into deep waters. As for right now, relax a little, and begin planning your next steps.

Remember…happiness is an inside job!

 

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Independent filmmaker, author, happiness coach and speaker Lisa Cypers Kamen creates these blogs to entertain, enlighten and educate our service men and women along with their families as well as support our troops. To contact Lisa, email her directly at lisa@harvestinghappiness.com and check out her websites at www.harvestinghappiness.com , www.hh4heroes.org & www.harvestinghappinesstalkradio.com.

 

Harvesting Happiness Talk Radio with Lisa Cypers Kamen brings a fresh approach to the airwaves promoting happiness, well-being and global human flourishing by presenting a diverse and proactive collection of the greatest thinkers and doers who have devoted their lives to creating a better world in which to live.

 

She is an expert in creating happiness, finding pathways to happiness, and building a happiness formula in her Harvesting Happiness workshops. Cultivate a happier life by tuning in weekly click here .Wednesdays at 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm EST. or download her free podcasts by clicking here.

Harvesting Happiness for Heroes is a pending 501(c)(3), non-profit corporation. Our mission objective is to offer support services to Warriors and Warrior families challenged by Combat Trauma, PTSD and post-deployment reintegration issues. HH4Heroes offers Battle Buddy workshops, family awareness training, online community support, one-on-one coaching services, as well as retreats for Warriors to decompress from battle and understand the tools available for them to adapt their military skills to civilian society.

Harvesting Happiness & Harvesting Happiness for Heroes provides positive psychology coaching tools to facilitate greater well-being. This communication is provided for education and inspiration. This communication does not constitute mental health treatment nor is it indicative of a private therapeutic relationship. Individuals desiring help for trauma, addiction and abuse related issues or other psychological concerns should seek out a mental health professional.

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